Any healthy man gets excited several times faster than a woman. For most, a quick glance at a naked body is enough for an erection and subsequent sexual intercourse. Others need reinforcement in the form of tactile stimulation - these are people with a kinesthetic type of perception of information from the outside. They need to touch everything, feel it physically in order to process it with their brain and accept it. If your partner loves touch and is most turned on by it, then he belongs to this group. Of course, guys with an increased tactile need will not refuse the sight of a beautiful girl, but your arsenal should include stimulating techniques with your hands and other parts of the body!
It is a mistaken belief that only the female half needs foreplay. Men also love affection and do not mind prolonging the pleasure they receive in order to relax physically and psychologically. And there are no fewer erogenous points on a strong torso than those of beautiful maidens. For a quality erotic session, you will need knowledge about sensitive areas, so let’s enrich our luggage with seductive techniques together. Today we’ll learn how to excite a man with our hands, and learn how to press all the "red buttons"!
Erogenous points in men, caress them correctly
Erogenous zones are those areas of the skin that are most sensitive to touch and influence. Their caresses help increase arousal and erection. Over time, you will learn to identify not only the general male erogenous zones, but also the individual ones for each individual guy, which gives you power over the stronger sex. A man simply goes crazy when a girl caresses him as if she’s reading his innermost thoughts at that moment! Let's move on to practical exercises.
Head and face
You should not think that all sensitive areas are concentrated in the area of the penis and scrotum. Most men get pleasure from running through their hair with women's hands. No less pleasant is such tenderness as touching the back of your hand to your cheeks, eyebrows, and chin. Stroke his hair with your fingers spread wide so that the hair falls between them, and run the ends over his face. You can complement the action with gentle kisses on the earlobe. What turns me on the most is not the fact of the touch of lips, but the warm breath, which is very acutely perceived.
Neck
This part of the body in men is ideal for arousing passion with hands. The most susceptible area is the strip of skin from the earlobes to the middle of the shoulder. Move your fingertips up and down and follow it up with kisses. You can use tongue caresses if your partner responds positively to such stimuli.
The line from the beginning of hair growth and down to the interscapular area is the runway. Hot travels begin from here, signaling that the lady will soon go lower and there will be a "bounty". . . Gently walk over her with the edge of your palm or fingers. Most likely, your body will be covered with goosebumps. Repeat.
Back
On the back, in order to properly excite a man with your hands, you need to touch several points:
- between the shoulder blades
- above the shoulder blades, closer to the shoulder region,
- 3-5 cm below the interscapular zone,
- on both sides of the coccyx + the coccyx itself.
These "accumulators" of lust can be caressed with your fingertips, hair, and some girls know how to effectively influence them with their breasts. Men are very turned on by the touch of women's nipples on their backs.
For many guys, hugging from behind is an incredibly attractive gesture, especially in the case of a completely naked female body.
If everything is fine with the vegetation in your intimate area, you can use a completely blatant provocation - caress the sacral back (tailbone area) with your pussy. Just keep in mind that in a few seconds the guy will be unable to restrain his desires, so the seduction with secret techniques will end there. Your only option is to tie him up or handcuff him.
By the way, an immobilized, blindfolded partner concentrates more on tactile stimuli, and therefore experiences more acute sensations. Take note of this idea!
Torso
On the front of the body, the most sensual points that instantly respond to caresses are the nipples and the hairy part of the abdomen, leading to the peak of male greatness. Please note that men have slightly different nipple sensitivity than girls, so you should not tug at them with the same intensity. There are individuals for whom such incentives will be unpleasant, therefore, dear tigresses and panthers, we purr and listen to the wishes of our seduced object. Many people like it when a girl runs her palms over her chest and stomach, while sitting on top.
Shoulders and arms
The shoulders themselves are not an erogenous zone, but a light massage of the central part will help to ensure a smooth transition from one part of the body to another. Hands, on the contrary, have several quite sensitive points.
- The outer part of the elbow, or rather the inner crease of the arm, is a place with increased susceptibility to light touches. More brutal tactics go unanswered. You can move from this place to the wrist with your fingertips back and forth.
- The area between the middle and ring fingers. Many guys react to touching her by association with caresses of the penis.
- The inner side of the palm and fingertips are also very sensitive to gentle touches from the hands, lips and warm breath.
Legs
Did you still think that a man’s legs are not involved in arousal and are needed only for support during sexual intercourse? You were very wrong! The feet, it turns out, are a real erogenous crater! Kneading the fingers, gently stroking the heels and insteps put their owner in more than high spirits.
The hollow under the knee is another erogenous zone for arousing a man with his hands. Stroking, light touches, pressure turn guys on wildly.
The junction of the torso and thighs is full of nerve endings, which makes it possible to classify this area on a man’s body as highly erogenous. Caressing the hip bones with your fingers can make a guy shiver with pleasure.
Anal hole
Many men do not let a woman into this area at gunpoint because they are embarrassed or afraid to create the image of a person focused on their own kind. And nature created her very erogenous! Caressing the anus outside and inside turns on any male. The main thing is to relax. Gently stroking the anal ring with your fingertips gives the guy the right mood. If you wish, you can put your fingers in his ass and feel the most sensitive points there with the maximum response to passionate appeals. We already wrote how to do this in an article about how to persuade your husband to have sex with a strap-on - read.
Dick and scrotum
And the main dish is, of course, manhood! Caressing the testicles with your hands (pulling, squeezing, fingering), masturbating the penis itself and touching the skin in the area between the anus and the genitals can result in gushing ejaculation. It all depends on your skills.
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How to properly caress a penis with your hands to excite a guy
To properly excite a man with your hands, you need to know how to handle his penis. Some girls are sure that jerking up and down and sanding the foreskin is quite enough for enchanting sensations. They are very wrong. You need to know how to handle a penis, and no less carefully than a woman’s vagina.
Correct grip
There are several basic ways to grab a penis.
- The traditional option is a fist grab, in which the movements can be translational "up and down", or they can imply rotation in a spiral.
- We press the head on top with our thumb, and the rest are located below.
- It is necessary to make a small ring (OK sign) from the thumb and index finger, connecting them and unclenching your fist (see photo below),
- If you first lubricate your hands with lubricant, it will be easy to excite a man. The fist in the reverse position (you need to see the back of the hand and her thumb pointing towards the woman) should move as if it were crushing the penis.
Caresses with fingers and hands
In order to enhance the sensations of a partner, a woman needs to take care of the warmth of her hands in advance. By using any technique of grasping the penis, stimulating a man with warm hands, you can quickly achieve orgasm. But you shouldn’t overheat the scrotum. There's nothing good about this for guys' health.
Some representatives of the stronger sex like it when a woman pats the shaft with her phalanges of fingers. It is better to do this by imagining that you are playing the guitar, so as not to visually scare away your partner with sweeping movements.
A man gets a special sensation when his penis is caressed by two ladies’ hands at once. We place the dignity between the palms without bending the fingers. We move up and down slowly and smoothly, touching the head with the thumb of one hand and making circular movements.
If your partner has a large amount of foreskin, jerk him off differently: you don’t need to go to the base, on the contrary, perform squeezing manipulations towards the head. Under the skin, the main erogenous zone is caressed - the head of the penis, and due to the fact that caresses are carried out indirectly, there is no risk of erasing it. Men with such a structure come brightly from such techniques!
It is important not to forget about stroking the testicles. The impact of simple massage movements will not only provide excitement, but will also bring health: you can avoid problems with potency in adulthood by regularly stroking and kneading the testicles. Take them in your hands, hold them, squeeze them, pull them a little to the side or down (slightly! this is not a wrist expander! ), then begin to massage the base of the penis in a circular motion and casually touch the testicles.
An unusual caress with a nail plate, which needs to be drawn along the shaft and along the scrotum, will add piquancy and enhance the effect of the whole process.
After the man is very excited, you can move on to more daring experiments. To continue, the girl needs to rub her labia on her partner’s penis and make sliding movements without penetrating the vagina.
Combining the proposed techniques with a high-quality blowjob will help surprise your man and bring him to ecstasy in a matter of minutes! In fact, there are no hard and fast rules on how to properly excite a man with your hands. To achieve harmony, examine his body centimeter by centimeter and monitor his reaction.
Some tips about massage techniques
We told you how to prepare a man for sexual intercourse and arouse him as much as possible, but you want to make a signature feature so that he is hooked completely and irrevocably. Let's try to outdo potential rivals and find that anchor on which we will put him like a drug!
- Always soften your hands with oil or cream to ensure smooth movements. Sliding turns men on.
- Apply pressure, stroking, light pinching to the muscles and be sure to pause for a few seconds. This greatly inflames passions.
- Always start your journey from the upper body and work your way down gradually. There is no need to go straight to the genitals.
- When moving to the perineum, play with clothes or a towel stretched after a shower to create even more arousal. Place your hands in your unbuttoned pants or under a towel, massage your privates and whisper in his ear how much it turns you on.
- You can maintain a commanding tone and order him what he does next minute. Even strong men get excited when a girl takes the initiative into her own hands.
- Combine caresses with each other. Let the exciting hand massage turn into a wild orgy, when the young man no longer understands where his body is and where his penis is. A wave of voluptuousness should cover him!
- Use your chest. You can caress the penis with two palms and lean the head against the nipples. Men love to touch their breasts with an erect penis!
And the main advice is to always use the tricky Thai technique. When you have reached the main point, select another very sensitive area and caress it at the same time. This could be a member-anus, a member-lower back, a member-buttocks, etc. You yourself will notice what a man responds to more. When he finishes, move to another secondary zone and unobtrusively caress for another 20-30 seconds, as if calming your partner. It should not be the most sensitive so as not to cause irritation. Repeat this over and over again - it will become your trick.
To excite a man with your hands and bring him to orgasm, you don’t need to wait for hints or requests from him. As a rule, representatives of the stronger sex are not averse to giving the initiative in bed to their partner, counting on her playful mood and passionate temperament. Surprise and spontaneity are excellent conditions for bold experiments and 100% male arousal.
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